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Tuesday, December 22, 2009

He's finally here

Owen William Burke was born December 16, 2009 at 7:38 pm. Finally! We went to the hospital at 6 am and finally around 9 am the doctor came in and tried to break my water, but it didn't work, it was up too high or something. So they started me on Pitocin to start contractions. My parents came to the hospital shortly after that and so all morning we pretty much just sat around in the hospital room and watched TV and talked. I could feel that I was contracting, but they didn't hurt at all. I walked around for awhile because I was bored, and it was pretty much a boring morning, just waiting and waiting.

Then, at about 1 pm my doctor came back and since the medicine was making me contract regularly, my water bag came into a position that my doctor could break it, so she did. There was A LOT of fluid, even my doctor was surprised. After that, my contractions started to hurt right away, but not so much that I couldn't take it, but enough that I had to breathe through them and squeeze the bed a little. Eventually I got up to go to the bathroom and decided to get in the whirlpool tub for a while. My contractions were getting stonger and stronger each time. I went into it thinking "How bad could the pain really get?" but holy cow, it was unbearable. I called for the nurse to come get me out of the tub and because I was still getting the Pitocin, my contractions were coming almost nonstop because my body was naturally contracting too. I told her that I was ready for an epidural and prayed that it wouldn't take long for the doctor to come give it to me. He came pretty quickly, but it seemed to take FOREVER for him to get everything set up and get the catheter in my back and then tape everything up and then FINALLY the drugs were being pumped into me :) While he was putting it in though, I had to be hunched over with my back curled and stay still while he put it in my spine all the while I'm having the worst pain of my life.

After that, though, it was smooth sailing. I had to switch positions a few times to get the epidural to affect both sides of my body evenly, but that was a small price to pay for the comfort I got. I even fell asleep a little bit. Meanwhile, the nurses checked me a few times and I was progressing just fine. By the time the doctor got back at about 7 pm I was ready to push. And since I had the AWESOME epidural, I didn't feel any pain while I pushed. It was the best part of the whole day because he was finally coming out and I didn't have to feel it :) Afterward we figured I probably pushed for about 25 minutes or so. Between contractions we all just kind of sat there and talked like nothing was going on. It was nothing like what I've seen on TV, but that's all thanks to the drugs.

So then, finally, at 7:38 pm, Owen was born. Ryan cut the cord and then the nurses took him. He was crying and making noise, but it was more of a whimper than an all out screaming cry, and it ended up that he had quite a bit of fluid in his lungs and he was a little pale. The nurses had to work on him for quite awhile, and even had to call in some help. They were really good though, and stayed calm with us, but they were concerned about him. Eventually they were satisfied that they got some of the fluid out of him and went over and weighed him. He weighed 8 lbs 7 oz and was 20.5 inches long. I was a little over 9 lbs at birth and Ryan was 6 lbs and some. Then we finally got to hold him and take pictures.







We got to go home on Friday and my mom came and stayed with us until today (Tuesday). We got pretty lucky because Owen is a really good baby. He only cries when he's hungry, gassy, or really needs a diaper change. Otherwise, he mostly sleeps or just hangs out and looks around. Our dogs are still getting used to him. They don't really pay too much attention to him, but our lab, Ragnar, sometimes barks at him when he cries.

It was awesome to have my mom come and stay with us. She cooked and cleaned and did laundry and helped a lot with Owen. I wish she could stay forever and do all that stuff! :) I'm nursing Owen, and he's doing good with it. Better each day, too. Ryan and I took him for his newborn check up yesterday, and he's a little jaundice, but not enough that we have to do anything but keep him well fed so that he cleans out his system.

Now we just have to hope that the weather cooperates enough that we can get home for Christmas, and the rest of our family can too. We want to show him off to everyone!

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

39 weeks

Ryan and I are a little disappointed that Owen didn't come out on his own this weekend. On Friday we went to Carlos O'Kelly's to eat spicy food, Saturday I walked around Wal-Mart for over an hour, and Sunday my friend Molly came up to give me a massage (and hit some labor inducing pressure points), but none of it worked. I guess he's just not ready to come out, but that's too bad because he's coming tomorrow whether he wants to or not! I've been having contractions every day that are regularly spaced and starting to get painful, but they always stop before anything happens.

I went to my last day of student teaching yesterday. I had originally planned to go today too, but since it's the last week anyway, which is usually an observation week, there really isn't a whole lot for me to do, and I decided to take today to relax. Or try to anyway. So far, I'm not too anxious, but I have a feeling that last night was my last good night of sleep for a LOOOOOOONG time! I'm afraid I won't sleep at all tonight, and Ryan probably won't be able to either. It's weird to think that today is the last day that it's just Ryan and me. He has the day off today, too, but we don't have any plans. I guess we'll just do any last minute stuff and run some errands.

We are getting really excited! Look for some pictures in the next few days!!

Thursday, December 10, 2009

38 weeks

I got to go to the doctor today since they were closed yesterday for the blizzard. She told me that since my platelet count was out of whack during my pregnancy (even though they are fine now) that I could be induced at 39 weeks if my cervix was "favorable". So she checked me and I was 3 cm and then she did what's called stripping the membranes, which is where my doctor seperates the amniotic sac from my cervix. It's supposed to release hormones and help labor get started. It really sucked and now I'm really crampy, but after she did that she said I was up to 4 cm dilated! We also scheduled an induction for Wednesday, December 16, but my doctor thinks I'll go into labor on my own before that! So yea! I'm just glad he'll be here well before Christmas.

I have to be at the hospital on the 16th by 6 am, which is nice and early, but the lady said that that means I'm the first of the list of three women getting induced that day, and if the floor gets busy with women having natural labors, that I'll be the last of the three to get bumped from the list. So I'm pretty much guaranteed to have Owen by/on the 16th. We'll see how it goes. I'm getting pretty excited/nervous/anxious now though, but I can't wait to meet him!

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Blizzard

Well, it hasn't even snowed that much yet this year, and now there's a full blown blizzard out. YUCK! It's nice that we got out of school early yesterday and no school today, though :) The bad part is that I think the whole state has shut down and my doctor's appointment got cancelled. I haven't heard anything from them, I just know because the I saw that the office is closed on KWWL. So I don't know when I'll be able to go in again, which sucks because now that I'm so close to the end, I just want to know what is going on - like am I dilated more?

I was getting pretty worried last night because I has having contractions all day from noon on, and they were coming about every 15 minutes, but they never became painful, so I just went to bed and nothing came of it, thankfully. One, I don't want to go out in this weather, and two, no one else would be able to make it here. So I guess we'll see how today goes. I talked to my student teaching supervisor last week and he said that he wasn't going to make me come back if I missed 7 days (I'm only supposed to get 6) so officially I could have him today since there's no school and only 7 school days left until I'm done. So now I'm ready :D except that today's no good because of the weather. So I'm really hoping for tomorrow. The snow is supposed to stop today, but the wind is going to be really bad and that's what makes it a blizzard. I just really want him to be born before Christmas, and the more time the better.

Today is my dog Ragnar's fourth birthday - so it would have been kind of cool to have Owen today so they could have the same birthday ;)

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

37 weeks

I had my appointment with my OB today and blood work yesterday. Lots of good news! My platelets are up to 178 which is good because they are supposed to be above 150 and they are going up. Last time I went they were 160, I think. Also, at my OB appt today she told me that I'm 2.5 cm dilated! Yea! I'm getting closer! She said that next week she may do an ultrasound to double check where his head is. I don't think he's really dropped at all yet, he still seems pretty high. I've been having more and more of those random contractions, which I didn't even realize until last week that that's what they were. I kept thinking he was just sitting in a funny position for a little while, but nope, those were Braxton Hicks. And he's still as active as ever, which I don't mind too much because it's reassuring, but sometimes I wish he'd calm down a little!

My countdown is now in the teens! 19 days until my due date! My mom is coming this weekend to "help me nest". I haven't gotten the urge to nest yet, which doesn't surprise me (or my mom, probably), so she's coming to do some major cleaning one last time before Owen gets here. Sounds pretty boring to me, but I appreciate the help, that's for sure! I shouldn't even say "help" because if anything, she'll be doing all the work, as usual.

So anyway, now I just need to get through the next couple of weeks of school and hope that the weather is cooperative for when he's ready to come out. We live about 10-15 minutes from the hospital in good conditions and light traffic, but from Elkader it would take about 1 hr 15 in good conditions and Ryan's family from Muscatine at least 2 hours.

We put our tree up this past Monday for the first time in about four years. It looks pretty good, but there's nothing under it. I hope Owen comes before Christmas so we can get a family picture in front of our tree!

I decided to take another bare belly picture, but first, this is a reminder of when I was 32 weeks and 4 days:


And this is me today, 37 weeks and 2 days:


I'm definitely bigger, but I think it's more of an all over roundness. I expected that my belly would be OUT farther, which it is, but not as much as I thought it would be.